I have been evolving for a long time in shops where players are really afar from any competitive events et do not understand the philosophy behind most of sanctions given in tournaments because they have that weirb brain shortcut that whispers to them that giving them sanctions is sowehow saying that they are cheating. This also reflects in the reactions that “casual” players get on their faces when the opponent calls a judge and feel immediately attacked.
That is why I also agree that hiding in a way what infraction and how the associated penalty you are precisely giving is telling those people to keep their irrational fear of the sanction. Imagine now how they could react when they get 3 of those “just warnings”.
I almost always use the following pattern when I am giving a ruling and people have not been offended so far in PTQs and PPTQs :
-“Okay, what you did here is not allowed by the rules of magic. This is called (blabla). This is how we are going to fix this situation : ( blabla ). This infraction is finally associated with a warning that I will write on the match slip. To avoid getting any further ones in future, please be more careful.”
The thing is I think avoid the “I give” and “you did wrong” that might make things appear more personal than they are. I also think that saying “is not allowed” is better than “you break a rule”.
This also comes along with the classic saying “what can I do to help you” over the “what did go wrong” or “what is the problem here”. Ultimately, go through things calmly and be careful how you say things but do not minimize/emphacize what is hapenning.
I also think that this situation is going to be more and more common since PPTQs are bringing competitors within local stores. This is a good opportunity to well educate players about competitive infractions and sanctions.
Edited Théo CHENG (Jan. 5, 2015 05:24:46 PM)